Monday, December 08, 2008

conflict

Religious and ethnic conflict has been around for a very long time. It must eventually come to some level of co-existence or one victory over the other.

As long as there has been conflict there have been those on both sides who will use the conflict as an excuse or justification for all manor of atrocity and violence.

In and effort to help my side become stronger and healthy i have accepted the mission of helping heal our society by uplifting and strengthening the fathers among us.

Those among us willing to do this important work should have an understanding of what the real job is. With that understanding will come clearer vision and insight into the importance and significance of the work of fathers in our society. We have raised far to many young without the benefits or faithful guidance. If those who chose to do the job of father understand what the real job is they will not have to deal with the guilt and baggage that comes with a sense of failure if the job description is bread winner. The important job function is passing on the ability to deal with fear to our children. The food and shelter we need are provided by our God. Our job is to demonstrate good stewardship of the provision God makes for our well being.  Do you take care of yourself so you can perform your job? Do you adequately prepare each day to work? If you demonstrate good stewardship to those in your care, then in faith our needs are provided for.

Understanding the real job explains how people who don't demonstrate the traditional characteristics of fathers can be effective for their children. Do they in their manner demonstrate an ability to manage fear. If the answer is yes then children will naturally absorb from that adult. This explains how gangsters and adults in prison can be effective parents.

So in our ongoing war I hope to help our side become stronger by helping more people chose the role of father.

 

cold clear walk count $0.53

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